Soul Tie: The spiritual component of any relationship intensely connected to you spiritually, emotionally, or mentally... 

God designed us to have a deep, meaningful connection through relationships that offer a mutual, healthy interdependence, where we can rely on, trust, and give and receive support to one another, but these relationships were meant to be solely dependent to Him. When this is violated and we put more trust in a specific individual rather than on God, we are entering into sin and paving the way for an unhealthy soul tie to form with that a person. 

How do we identify ungodly soul ties in our life?

Ungodly soul ties can be developed with and through anything that is unhealthy or harmful to you, and they are not just the result of sexual relationships.   

We can all name our poison if we have the courage to go there; if you will bravely look for patterns in your decisions, choices, and your relationships. The traps of ungodly soul ties will be evident. 

How do we break ungodly soul ties? 

It is by confession and repentance

How do we stay free from ungodly soul ties? 

It is our choosing. It doesn't matters how many transforming  [inner healing] sessions we go through if we do not apply what we have learned and do the leg work. Ultimately, we will undo all the work from that session. Spiritually-wise people learn to discern the spirit of a person before we choose to connect with them on a deeper level.